Pages

Agoraphobia: Afraid To Leave Your Comfort Zone

Many people have a fear of leaving home, of being alone, or traveling outside of a limited area close to home. Some people are able to create a zone that includes their job, a grocery store, their church, and others are unable to leave home or be left alone at home. This type of phobia is like a prison of one's own making with invisible lines that cannot be crossed. For many this condition feels hopeless, painful, and permanent.

People who are unable to work often become dependent on the support of other people or they become permanently disabled on public assistance. Some people find relief through medication, but the people who contact me usually report that medication doesn't help. Some people are able to white-knuckle a short trip to a family event or their child's school play if they have several strong drinks of alcohol, and have the added discomfort of feeling intoxicated as well as extremely nervous about being outside their comfort zone.


For most people who have this condition their lives become a living hell, trapped at home, unable to participate in their families or communities, and feeling miserable about the extreme limitations that they live with.

Conventional treatments, other than medication, encourage the person to gradually extend their zone. Perhaps this approach works for some people. The people who come to me did not have success with this method and came looking for another approach. I never encourage anyone to push themselves into discomfort. I don't find this to be successful or humane. My approach is to build strength within and encourage exploration that feels wanted and welcome when that time arrives. Pushing someone who isn't ready for that is traumatizing, and in my experience this is a condition caused by trauma. My approach is to resolve and heal trauma, and never to push someone into additional trauma.

Any phobia, or extreme "unrealistic" fear, is usually caused by a series of events, often small cumulative events, that the person doesn't remember. It can also be caused by a traumatic and difficult event at a time in life that was already seriously challenging. Many people create these unconscious patterns in childhood in conjunction with major life events such as parents divorcing or an unwanted family move. Even good changes are stressful, but many children experience extreme difficulties that affect them for the rest of their lives unless the impact of those events is resolved. Parents rarely realize the degree of impact that these changes have on their children and wonder what happened to make such changes in their children's behavior. And most psychological effects show up much later in life and often get gradually worse over time. Many of the people who contact me have been living with extreme anxiety and phobias, unable to function in life, for quite a long time. Occasionally someone young will contact me for help and those situations are often easier to resolve. But even the most deep-seated conditions of phobia and anxiety respond well to my approach.

My work is designed to identify the origin of the problem and resolve it there. What was going on at the time that this problem first started? Most likely there were several milder incidents that lead up to this problem becoming noticeable which makes it much more difficult for anyone to work through this without professional help. In my work with this problem we are able to successfully identify the original cause and utilize my specific techniques for working through the origin. I have been successfully helping people with agoraphobia, anxiety, and other phobias since 1990 utilizing the most advanced techniques available in my field.

Agoraphobia and other anxiety and phobia conditions are not a life sentence to learn to live with forever. The ability to heal any type of problem exists inside every person. We are able to work together to find that solution. I work with each person until they have resolved this and are fully functioning in the world to the extent that they wish to.

Doing this work is an investment in life. What is the value of living life fully, traveling anywhere, participating in the world to whatever extent desired? What is the cost of living in limitation, psychologically and economically? My professional fee, on par with other therapists and holistic healers, is on a sliding scale to make my work available to as many people as possible.


Article Source: Pati McDermott

3 comments:


  1. Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com she is a woman and she is great. wish you good time.
    He cast spells for different purposes like
    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dream
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) You want to be rich.
    (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) HIV/AIDS CURE
    (10) is the only answer to that your problem of winning the lottery

    Contact him today on: traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com

    ReplyDelete
  2. Interesting article, thanks! I’ve subscribed to your website posts. Nice ideas in this blog. Our Health Our Life agree with you.

    ReplyDelete

  3. Hello to every one out here,

    I'm very excited sharing this testimony about how i save my marriage when my heart was broken, My name is Michelle Robert from USA, My husband and I are both directors and shareholders in our family business. We have been married for 20 years but my husband is now going for a divorce, i agreed in the first place but i later realized what happens to my family and what rights will I have in the business if my husband divorce me, and i have worked so hard for my family and this business, i was incomplete and wondered what to do because he already went to court. I was browsing on the internet when i saw a post on how a spell caster called Chief Nwaluta Mallam Zack helped someone bring back her ex, so i wondered if he can help me, i gave him the try and contacted him at his email {nwalutaspelltemple@gmail.com}, he told me not to worry that everything would be alright, i gave him the chance to cast the spell, he told me that in 48 hours my husband will come back and beg me, i never believed it at first, surprisingly completing 48 hours he came back and started to beg me not be to be annoyed about what he did, and now we are happy again. Thank you Chief Nwaluta Mallam Zack today my home is restored back if you are going through similar problem you can contact him at his private Email: nwalutaspelltemple@gmail.com .

    E-mail:Nwalutaspelltemple@gmail.com .
    Website: http://chiefnwalutamallamzack.blogspot.com .
    Mobile number +2348072370762.
    Thank you Sir, i will always be testifying about your good work

    ReplyDelete